Friday, April 5, 2013

Why We Baptized Both Our Infants: Part 3

Photo by Bonnie Hoffman.
Over the past few days, I've been sharing from my heart the reasons our family practices infant baptism, despite the fact that I grew up not believing in it.  For the first two posts, click here and here.

Now, for Part 3:
 
Christopher and I baptized our daughter as a baby and will soon baptize our son because we want them to know beyond the shadow of a doubt that the faith in their hearts is God's work and not their own.  When they fall into doubts and questions of faith, we don't want them to analyze, "Did I really have ENOUGH faith"?  We want them instead to return to what God did for them when they were baptized.  We want them to remember that when they were helpless as infants, that is just when the Holy Spirit dipped into their hearts and gave them the gift of faith.  God is the subject of the sentence, not us.

We also want them to know that because they are a part of this family, faith is their heritage and birthright.  We are a family who is "in Christ."  We are together being made new.  The way we operate in our family is in constantly seeking the Lord.

I pray almost every day that God will continue to grow faith in my children's hearts.  Nothing in this world is more important than this.

So this is the way we have chosen to pass on our faith to our kids: infant baptism followed by discipleship and teaching.  A lot of my friends think differently.  They feel a conviction that their kids need to say a "Sinner's Prayer" and make a decision for Jesus.  Either way, the good news is that we are parents who want our kiddos to know and love God.  We want them to experience the blessing of salvation, the freedom of life in Christ, the unmerited favor that God's grace provides.  Some of us will dunk our kids.  Some of us will sprinkle them.  Some of us will encourage a choice for Christ.  Some will emphasize Christ's choice for us.  Either way, we are united in the knowledge that faith comes from the Holy Spirit alone (Ephesians 2:8-9).  

Our human language is so limited in trying to express the truths of Scripture.  That doesn't mean we shouldn't study the Word and try to understand its teaching.  In fact, it is crucial that we do so.  But both Lutheran theology and evangelical theology will fall short at one time or another.  Whatever we call conversion, the Holy Spirit is the One who gives faith and whenever people come to faith or deepen in their faith, it's worth rejoicing about.  I rejoice when people go forward at altar calls.  I rejoice when parents care enough about their kids to dedicate or baptize them.  If we are all centered on Jesus and on His Word, how can we lose?  My Bible study teacher said once (reflecting on Paul's teaching in Romans) that we should not argue so much in the Church on disputable matters such as all the minutiae about baptism.  She said, "Jesus said we should get baptized, so we should do that and not argue about how and when and all that."  I so appreciated that sentiment and completely agree.  

So, when we baptize our little Mr. Bean in a couple of weeks, this is why we are doing it.  But that baptism day is just the beginning.  From then on, a path of teaching and prayer remains.  Hold us in prayer as we teach our little ones just what faith in Jesus is all about.  Nothing is more important.

3 John 4: "I  have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth" (NIV).

8 comments:

  1. Thank you for writing such a beautiful and respectful series explaining your beliefs as they relate to baptism. After moving to a new area, we were seeking a new church home when a pastor explained that in that particular denomination the church followed the motto, "Unity in essentials, charity in nonessentials." That has struck with me and your writing reminds me of it. The idea is that we will follow God and obey His Word, but we will avoid getting caught up in arguing over matters that are not essential or clear in scripture. You writing has captured the true beauty of a Christ follower.
    Kara Ring

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    1. I love that motto, Kara, and have heard a similar one before. I am so blessed to know Christians from all different denominations and to have attended so many different kinds of churches. TOGETHER we are the Body of Christ.

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  2. Yes, it is better to agree on what is important and vital to faith and true Christian living, and not worry so much getting caught up in the minutiae of what might really not be important at all. Centering on Jesus, and following Him with a whole heart I believe is what is really important for a Christian.

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  3. I love dedications for many of the reasons you laid out. I know more than one person that was baptized as an infant and it made their faith more difficult. I also know a number of people that feel blessed to be baptized as a infant. IMHO I think a dedication as a kid and baptism as a adult is the way to go. What matters in the end on this one is that we both follow Christ. This is not a matter of salvation but it is a matter that has caused much consternation in the church.

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    1. Thanks for sharing, Vagabond. Yep, we all must search the Scriptures and seek to follow the Word as we best understand it. And then do our best to be unified with other Christians who may interpret things differently. Thanks for doing that!

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  4. I think some would say that this is a matter of salvation. What do we put our faith in? Do we put our faith in the sprinkling of earthly water or do we put our faith in Jesus for what He did for us. What part does repenting for our sinns play in salvation? Is everyone saved that does not say "no" to God? I am doing a study on baptism and would like to get a full picture of why we baptise babies.

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    1. There are a few denominations that do believe that baptism is necessary for salvation. But all but the most extreme will still say that you are saved no matter the methodology of the baptism. And it is the minority of denominations that say that it is necessary for salvation.

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